How do we take our yoga practice off our to-do schedule and into our hearts? Living consciously – which is the fancy way of saying be happy is what we all want. My evolution with yoga is a combination of hard work, the very best kind of desperation, and a longing for the divine. We'll go over three of the topics covered in the yoga sutras to begin to build a foundation to live our yoga and then I'll give you some of my simple real world tips for yogic living.

Roni's Opening to Class:

Feel your own existence and remember that sensation when you saw an amazing magic trick. Embody that sense of wonder as you think about your life. Life is a confusing, emotional, breathtaking kaleidoscope of moments. Right now you are in this moment. You can't be anywhere else so be fully here, on your

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We Pretend We Don’t Know What’s Wrong

Be honest … we usually know exactly what we have done or are doing to create the results we are experiencing. We know what we could change, but we don't want to make the simple straightforward adjustments that are necessary. Often, if we are going to suffer through the process of change, we want it to be in grand style!

- I'm detoxing for a week

- I'm going to read all the books

- I'm going to throw money at it

- A vacation will solve this!

Inevitably we find ourselves back on the couch with our familiar results, scratching our heads and wondering why this is happening to us while rolling our eyes at the people we think never struggle with our affliction.

I know three things for sure about human beings –, we are hilarious, we are pure

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I have come to firmly believe that there are certain universal laws. These laws do not exist to conflict with religion, but rather to work with it as a vessel for God to make himself undeniably visible in our lives. These laws are the ways that we can wrangle the wild animal of free will and not be victims of a chaotic world but instead, wielders of life. This universe functions in certain predictable yet mystical ways. I've attempted to break these down into 5 main universal laws, each independent and yet relying completely on the others. People who understand these laws can live fulfilling and empowering lives, those who don't will continue to suffer in a never ending fight with themselves and the world they believe they live in.

Law #1 What you think regularly becomes your belief system

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Dr. Deepak Chopra has spoken about asking many of his patients why they wanted to get better. They would say things like I want to be able to get back to my job, I want to take care of my family, I want to see the world and he would ask why they wanted those things. And if you keep asking "why" and follow the line of answers down to the core, the final answer is usually the same … because I want to be happy. Everything we do and don't do is an attempt at happiness. Buddha was born in India 2,500 years ago and he dedicated his life to the study of happiness and the cessation of suffering. Buddha's four noble truths are often described as being similar to a physician’s diagnosis. He tells us what the disease is, what causes it, and that there is a cure. The final truth refers to "The

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Dear 2013,

YES. I say YES to everything you have in store for me. YES to every stumble and every tear. YES to every hug and every kiss. YES to the things I will lose and YES to all that I will gain. YES to wrinkles I will acquire and YES to what the mirror tells me. YES to my life just as it is, and YES to it changing in ways I never saw coming. YES to the new people I will meet, and YES to those I may lose. YES to the fear, YES to the pain, YES to frozen moments and YES to momentum. YES to work and YES to rest. YES to unexpected bills and YES to abundance. YES to love.

So if you still don't understand know this; I say YES to everything that is about to happen to me and everything that will not. Before it ever happens I bring a YES to my life. There is nothing you can throw at me that

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"Peace comes from being aligned with the present moment. Wherever you are, you feel that you are home - because you are home." -  Eckhart Tolle

Roni's Opening to Class:

This is a room filled with imperfections, with black sheeps and wanna-be's. We have let people down, gotten lost, said the wrong thing, slept when we should have worked, broken something valuable and tripped in public. We are a mess. We come right now to our mats with all of our failures and bruises and even shame. Because this yoga mat that I am sitting on now is the most absorbent thing on the planet. It soaks up all the fear, the mistakes, the stories, the lies, the despair. It absorbs it all. On this rectangle I am supposed to be a mess, in this room of mis-fits I fit in. Perfect is boring, it’s predictable, not a

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The topic today can be boiled down to three words, the idea of which will change your life if you let it. Those three words are "Sounds have Power." Sounds have an incredible power over us. What is sound? It is a form of energy as sound vibrations are invisible yet powerful. The human ear can hear roughly 16 to 40,000 vibrations per second. Of all of those millions of possible combinations of vibrations there is a specific combination that is very dear to you personally. Your name, this particular combination of syllables is the most powerful sound in your life. We inherently know the power of sounds to alter us. How do you feel when you hear certain sounds like classical music or heavy machinery, laughing or screaming? When we play music we love loudly it makes us happy, but when someone

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Why do we do what we do? Why do we behave the way we behave? Some physiologists have identified 6 main human needs. People find ways to meet these needs in positive, negative, or neutral ways, but every person finds a way to meet them in some way. We have some genetic propensities, but we all learned different ways of meeting our needs as we grew up. With the raw absorbent eyes of a child, we soaked up the different techniques available to use to feel the way we desire to feel. We all had different life experiences that have added up to the ways that we each meet our basic needs, but you have some go-to responses, some highly predictable ways of interacting with difficulty or success.  I was fascinated by the ways we can positively and negatively meet our needs. Because the way we react

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Below are three Enemies of Gratitude, meaning that when these things exist in our minds or hearts then gratitude cannot. The environment that these emotions create cannot sustain the life of anything that has the ability to propel us closer to the people we want to be. Here are three of the enemies of gratitude that Roni discussed in class.

Jealousy
This is one of the most unintelligent emotions human beings have. If you want something, you have to greet it everywhere you see it. If you want success, you have to develop a friendly relationship with success. Everywhere you see it you must greet it, be excited for it, whether it be a competitor or a person who hasn't been kind to you, or someone you feel hasn't worked hard enough for it … it doesn't matter. If you want a relationship,

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I've been thinking about the recession and its effect on our concept of abundance. I spend a lot of time talking about the importance of our spiritual and emotional life, which is the foundation of the balance and joy we are all seeking. But here's the thing, most people spend 8 hours or more every day at work. What we do for a living, or better put, how we do what we do for a living is also fundamental for that joy. You may expect me to preach selling all of your belongings and becoming a monk or missionary somewhere. And some people are called to do just that, but many are also called to financial abundance. What I'm saying is that it is okay to desire these things, to dream big in EVERY area of your life. We talk about believing in abundance, but if we really believe it then that means

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I spent the past 4 days immersed in the Tony Robbins conference. Tony is a motivational speaker, but even more so he has spent his life studying neuro-associative conditioning. This is basically learning to use the way your brain works to create triggers and reactions that will cause you to think and feel the way you want to think and feel in any given situation. He spent a lot of time talking about the foundational importance of physiology, or the way we use our bodies. He taught in an intellectual way about what you already know from your life's experience: If you don't feel good physically, you won't perform at your best. This doesn't just mean having an injury or being tired or even sick, but even more critical is how we choose to sit, stand, walk, or any of the tiny ways we

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I've been thinking a lot lately about the relationship I have with my belly, and the relationship our culture has with this area of our bodies that has led me into what has often been a tumultuous relationship with this crucial part of my anatomy. Now I'll go ahead say before you get annoyed at me that I am not saying that I am fat. You could really apply much of what I am about to say to whatever body part bothers you the most. For many women it is the thighs, others the butt. Though I don't think it is quite as emotionally aggressive, men definitely suffer from this mental condition as well.

Our Western culture has ingrained in us that the state and appearance of our body parts has a direct correlation to our value or worth to others. You don't need me to tell you how; we all know

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Student of the Month - Steven Klein

I have always been involved in athletics and weight training as long as I can remember, and fitness has always been a priority. I first practiced yoga in a studio last November in my hometown, Charlotte, NC, and I was hooked immediately. I had practiced yoga in gyms before over the years, but it just wasn’t the same. I’m not quite a year into my yoga practice, and already I couldn’t imagine my life without yoga. I’ve never had one day that I said to myself, “Gosh, I wish I wouldn’t have practiced yoga today!”

When I’m in a rut, or life throws me a “curve ball,” yoga provides a sanctuary to look within, reminding me to stop looking outside myself for answers especially during “tough” times.

When I practice yoga, I get a great

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My Dear,

You are cordially invited to loosen up. You're invited to stop thinking that everything revolves around you. You are welcome to not take everything personally. Please join me for this one and only chance to go with the flow. You're invited to not need everyone to like you, and to speak with voice and guts that God gave you. Join us for a wild and racuous experience of imperfection. You're invited to realize that no one else is looking at that perfect curve you call a roll...but we are checking you out. Because you're invited to be seduced by your own shape and to wink back at your wrinkles. The attire asks that you wear your own skin fully, no accessories needed. No need to bring a dish, all that you could ever desire will be provided.  But please do bring a deep breath and

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I had the chance to talk to a Buddhist Monk about some things that had been bothering me lately. He listened patiently for five minutes of rambling and finally said "You are suffering because you want something to be different than it is...that's all." Now you feel combative when you argue with a monk but I found myself thinking "Yeah but it would be crazy to want something sad or unfair to happen". He only repeated back to me "You are suffering because you want something to be different than it is". As I thought more about this, or more accurately, as I wrestled with idea I was reminded that this suffering he spoke of always boils down to the meanings I am placing on things. Whether or not something is good or bad has everything to do with my definition of good or bad, that situations

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When you own your breath, nobody can steal your peace.  ~Author Unknown

When the breath wanders the mind also is unsteady.  But when the breath is calmed the mind too will be still, and the yogi achieves long life.  Therefore, one should learn to control the breath.  ~Svatmarama, Hatha Yoga Pradipika

Inhale, and God approaches you.  Hold the inhalation, and God remains with you.  Exhale, and you approach God.  Hold the exhalation, and surrender to God.  ~Krishnamacharya

A healthy mind has an easy breath.  ~Author Unknown

If you woke up breathing, congratulations!  You have another chance.  ~Andrea Boydston

Breathing is the greatest pleasure in life.  ~Giovanni Papini

Smile, breathe and go slowly.  ~Thich Nhat Hanh

Breath is Spirit.  The act of breathing is Living.  ~Author

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Quotes by Wayne Dyer from Roni's Class:

A mind at peace, a mind centered and not focused on harming others, is stronger than any physical force in the universe.

We don't attract what we want, we attract what we are. What we all are is the beliefs we have about ourselves, and what we are capable of.

Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into.

Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice.

Begin to see yourself as a soul with a body rather than a body with a soul.

Conflict cannot survive without your participation.

Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life.

Everything in the universe has a purpose. Indeed, the invisible intelligence that flows through everything in a purposeful fashion is also

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Today's class is called "It's not All About Me!" and I wanted to talk about an idea that changes my life when I remember it. That is that there are as many realities as there are people on the planet. We each live in our own special world with our own special definitions and our own ten commandments of what is important and what isn't. We make everything about ourselves, not always because we are egoic, but because we believe that everyone else is living in the same reality. It isn't necessarily selfish, its just an uninformed, unconscious way of living. Here's the truth: no one cares about you, they care about themselves. Harsh but true. Every conversation you have you're thinking that you are teaching someone something and they're just wondering how what your saying applies them. So

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"At some point, you gotta let go and sit still and allow contentment to come to you. Letting go, of course, is a scary enterprise for those of us who believe that the world revolves only because it has a handle on the top of it which we personally turn, and that if we were to drop this handle for even a moment, well – that would be the end of the universe. But....try dropping it. Sit quietly for now and cease your relentless participation. Watch what happens. The birds do not crash dead out of the sky in mid-flight, after all. The trees do not wither and die, the rivers do not run red with blood. Life continues to go on. Why are you so sure that your micromanagement of every moment in this whole world is so essential? Why don’t you let it be?"
- Elizabeth Gilbert

Sometimes we have to

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I have come to understand more and more that beauty is an experience that we have not a sight we see. Below are the quotes used during Roni's classes on the idea of Beauty:

“People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.” - Elisabeth Kubler

“Pretty is something you're born with. But beautiful, that's an equal opportunity adjective.” - Unknown

"No object is so beautiful that, under certain conditions, it will not look ugly.” - Oscar Wilde

“The most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart” - Helen Keller

“I pull you from your tower, take away your pain. Show you all the beauty you possess,

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Eckhart Tolle wrote “Evolve or Die”. During a trying time in my life I had those words hanging in my room. That sentence resonated with me on every level. I literally felt that things either had to change or things were going to end. The other quote that hung on my wall said “The recognition of insanity is the beginning of sanity”. To me this meant that I didn’t have to try to tackle my whole life and everything about myself I wanted to be better. At that moment all I was able to do was call the crazy crazy every time it popped up. Over and over in my mind I met my own thoughts and said “you’re not true”. We have all had that moment, at the end of a job or a relationship where we sat there and thought “Well I can’t keep feeling like this, something has to

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Excerpt from Interview with Roni Sloman:

"This is what I would like to tell Christians. The evidence of the physical postures of Yoga is as much as 5,000 years old. It pre-dates the major religions. The people of India just happened to be the ones who took this practice and dedicated themselves to perfecting it. Because of its overwhelming effects on the strength of their bodies and the balance of their minds they naturally incorporated it into their lives. It is not a religion, it is a practice that science supports to be one of the most beneficial things you can for your body. The life principles that accompany yoga are also not a religion, but a way of living. Can it be a religion? Sure. Anything can be a religion. When I read the Yoga Sutras, the principles set out for a

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I became a Christian at the age of 15, a transformation that you never would have expected had you known me as a child. I remember standing in religion class with my little finger in the air telling the Priest that people just needed to something to believe but that didn’t make it true. And then the shift…I won’t go into the details, mostly because I don’t understand them myself. But on December 31^st 1993 something changed and all the sudden the idea of a God made all the sense in the world. I remember saying to him “I’m gunna give this thing a shot, but if you don’t show up, then neither will I.” It’s 15 years later and I can tell you, he showed up. The problem with my search was that I was looking for answers, to understand God, to be able to answer questions clearly

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